“She steps after you step”

There is a reason why so many women struggle to let go of control and follow the masculine’s lead - even though they deeply crave to be led by a loving masculine.

A part of them want to release control, and part of them doesn’t trust it.

If the feminine dosent feel secure in her environment or relationship, she steps in to her masculine because its only way to survive. In her masculine she will harden up and loose herself in the process.

What most men don’t realize is this: She is a reciprocator.

A female doesn’t move first - she responds. She reflects back the energy, safety, and leadership she feels from the masculine. When the masculine steps, she steps. When he leads with grounded clarity, she softens into trust. When he shows up consistently, she blossoms in devotion. And when he pulls away, she closes. When the masculine goes silent, she doubts. When the masculine leads from confusion, she mirrors that uncertainty right back at him. This is why I call this “mirror mirror” in my therapy sessions.

It’s not manipulation - its nature. The feminine is the mirror of the masculine. She doesn’t decide to follow - she feels it. Her nervous system, her emotions, her entire being respond to the energy the masculine holds. This is the sad bit that most men do not know: THEY hold so much power, in a relationship.

That is why a women’s softness is never something a male can demand. It is something that is evoked by the way a healed male move, speaks, leads and shows up.

Masculine and Feminine: The Dance of Energy

Masculine energy isn’t control - its direction. It’s the safety and structure that allows the feminine to flow. Feminine energy isn’t weakness - its responsiveness, its intuition, emotion and deep connection that reflects the truth of what’s happening.

When this dance is wounded, we see power struggles, emotional distance, or chaos. But when both energies are healed - when a man reclaims presence and a woman reclaims trust - the relationship transforms.

Where 9D Breathwork Comes In

In 9D breathwork, we don’t just talk about the masculine and feminine healing - we feel it.

We go beneath the stories and into the body - releasing the blocks that keep us guarded, reactive or emotionally shut down.

Whether you identify more with the masculine or feminine essence, this work helps you return to your natural state:

-grounded leadership for men
-soft openness for women
-deep energetic harmony for both

If you ever felt disconnected, misunderstood, or stuck in repeating relationship patterns - this is where you begin to reset the energy.

Join a 9D Breathwork session

Experience what it feels like to lead from presence and respond from truth. This is where polarity heals - and connection becomes effortless again.