To All Men - Those Here and Those Who Have Gone

Given its almost Movember, this blog is dedicated to all men in our lives - the ones standing beside us, the ones who shaped us, and the ones who have left their mark. And for those who don’t know what Movember is, in Australia, it is an annual movement every November that focuses on men’s health, wellbeing, and awareness. Traditionally men grow moustaches for the month as a conversation starter, but it’s about much more than facial hair. It’s about showing up fully as a man, both internally and externally.

Todays society has shaped men to hide emotions, chase money, push through exhaustion and measure your worth by what you provide.

But here is the hard truth: If you operate from scarcity, if your energy is low, fearful, or scarcity driven, this will reflect in every part of your life - your relationships, your friendships, your career, even your money flow. Nothing will actually work if your energy is off. You will keep living the same cycle, reacting instead of creating, stuck instead of leading. Scarcity silently shapes your life and kills masculinity unless you choose otherwise.

Your friendships matter: Look at the men around you? People around you? Your friendships? Do they lift you up…or drain your energy? Are you keeping people close just to fill the void? Scarcity thrives when you settle for shallow connections. Abundance thrives when you choose a circle that challenges, inspires, and holds you accountable.

Your family matters: If you have children - with or without a partner - your presence is everything. Every choice you make sends a message: will they grow up learning fear, reactivity, and scarcity…or confidence, clarity, and emotional strength? Your children are watching whether you like it or not. Show them what it means to stand tall, lead wisely, and live with purpose.

Your money matters: Your finances reflect your mindset. Scarcity creates stress, fear, and reactive decisions. Abundance gives you control, clarity, and the power to provide and protect. If your energy is down or scared, it will mirror in your money flow and the way your relationships operate.

A personal note: I came across this photo recently - m dad, my sister and I, laughing, carrying on. He knew when to joke, when to be silly and he was the truest example of masculine presence, by all means not perfect - but an army boy through and through, disciplined, strong, yet loving in his way. He showed me how a man can be powerful and grounded while still being present for his family. Movember isn’t just about growing a moustache - its about showing up, stepping into your presence, and leaving a legacy. My dad didn’t die of an illness but he left a mark on me through his energy, his love and his example. That’s what matters most.

Here is your opportunity: This Movember give yourself 2 hours for a 9D Breathwork Mini Retreat. Release fear. Reset your mind. Recharge your energy. Step fully into the man you were born to be. Scarcity kills silently. Abundance builds loudly.

Your friendships, your relationships, your finances, and your children’s future depend on it.

Are you ready to show up?